The Skeleton Code A Satirical Guide to Secret Keeping eBook Alla Campanella Ken Massey
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A revealing look at what we hide and why “Funny, well-written, and absolutely the best self-help book I have come across in a while” (Urban Book Reviews).
In an of age of social media, computer hacking, recorders on every new device we can get our hands on, and security cameras following every shameless move we make, privacy is a thing of the past. Unfortunately, the skeletons in our closets aren’t so gone, forgotten, or protected. With one errant text, unfortunate photo, or midnight tweet, they can start rattling. This tongue-in-cheek, yet cautionary book explores the many ways, and great lengths we go to, to shield our public personas, reputations, and most embarrassing and cringe-worthy secrets. With scores of funny and alarming interviews with people who didn’t take extreme measures to guard their now-free and feral skeletons, it also outlines the strategies you can take to make sure your secrets never see the light of day.
If you don’t think you need the key to The Skeleton Code, you’re treading the dark and increasing crowded waters of that infamous river called Denial.
In an of age of social media, computer hacking, recorders on every new device we can get our hands on, and security cameras following every shameless move we make, privacy is a thing of the past. Unfortunately, the skeletons in our closets aren’t so gone, forgotten, or protected. With one errant text, unfortunate photo, or midnight tweet, they can start rattling. This tongue-in-cheek, yet cautionary book explores the many ways, and great lengths we go to, to shield our public personas, reputations, and most embarrassing and cringe-worthy secrets. With scores of funny and alarming interviews with people who didn’t take extreme measures to guard their now-free and feral skeletons, it also outlines the strategies you can take to make sure your secrets never see the light of day.
If you don’t think you need the key to The Skeleton Code, you’re treading the dark and increasing crowded waters of that infamous river called Denial.
The Skeleton Code A Satirical Guide to Secret Keeping eBook Alla Campanella Ken Massey
I had to keep reminding myself this was satire. And as satire, for 80% of the book, the authors do a very good job.Alla Campanella and Ken Massey rightly note that almost everyone has skeletons in their closets – secrets we just don’t share. But then we worry about keeping those secrets from popping out, or being found out or outed by someone else. The authors are careful to provide a disclaimer that they are not promoting immoral, unethical or illegal behavior. They then proceed to present several chapters of tricks for protecting your secrets: dressing for diversion, mimicking the masters, taking the offensive. There are several chapters sharing methods to encourage fear and help prepare a response in the event of exposure, either accidental or purposeful. There can be an art in self disclosure that minimizes the potential for negative impact. The authors provide a fitting quote from Sidney Poitier: “I know how easy it is for one to stay well within moral, ethical, and legal bounds through the skillful use of words—and to thereby spin, sidestep, circumvent, or bend a truth completely out of shape.” The authors also do a nice job of summarizing the techniques and testing the progress of the reader.
I really had difficulty sticking through this to the end. I knew it is satire but that didn’t help stop my feeling that what they were describing was somewhat ‘slimy’. Still, it just didn’t feel right or good and I didn’t want to read it. This made me feel like when I stop reading a book because the language used is just too foul – it makes me feel uncomfortable and unhappy.
I knew there was a better message but that isn’t shared until the last two chapters. The closing points note that hiding secrets may cause physical pain as well as emotional illness. It is healthier to uncover the secrets, face them and remove the skeleton from your life. This did make me feel better. The closing remarks reminded me of the Transactional Analysis course I took in my late twenties which featured resource books like I’m Ok - You’re Ok and Games People Play.
The book is well written and laid out in an easy to follow fashion. I think the authors’ introduction tried to reassure the reader that the ultimate message was positive… and it is. I just think there could be more positive ways to present the message. This one wasn’t real comfortable for me but could be very useful for the right people, right situation.
I received this title from ProBook Marketing through iRead Book Tours for an honest review. My rating 3.75.
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The Skeleton Code A Satirical Guide to Secret Keeping eBook Alla Campanella Ken Massey Reviews
The definition of Satire is “The use of humor, irony, exaggeration, or ridicule to expose and criticize people’s stupidity or vices, particularly in the context of contemporary politics and other topical issues”.
“The Skeleton Code” by Alla Camponella and Ken Massey is a satirical self-help book that “helps” the reader deal with the skeletons in his or her closet. Everyone lies every now and again, but what happens when that lie turns into another and another and so on and so on? That’s when you start to load your closet with skeletons- the truths that you don’t want others to know about.
The book starts off with ways to keep those skeletons in the closet, whether it’s by deflecting the attention, adjusting your personal image, or a number of other over-the-top ways that can be used to keep the secret a secret. Part of satire is often humor. While there were some instances that made me chuckle (such as a specific line about where men really keep their brains), the majority of the book didn’t read as funny to me. However, another big part of satire is exaggeration, and that was something that was very much present in “The Skeleton Code”. The authors use extreme examples to demonstrate their tips and tricks of secrecy, the types of big secrets that most people (hopefully) don’t have in everyday life.
The last few chapters, however, take a break from the hyperbole of satire and offer some real tips about secret keeping and unburdening yourself of those skeletons. This last bit was nice because suddenly the book went from a satirical self-help book to an actual self-help book, ending on a positive note for the reader.
While I might not have laughed my way through the book, others may. I don’t normally read satire/humor/self-help or any non-fiction usually, so I thought it might have been a bit of a chore to get through this book. However, that was not the case. The book is small enough to not be daunting, and the examples and “advice” given were interesting enough to keep turning the pages. It might not have been my favorite book, but I would recommend it to those who enjoy satire, secrets, and extreme stories of other’s secrets (such as a farmer’s inappropriate relations with his sheep).
So read, enjoy, and keep those skeletons in the closet.
The Skeleton Code is a good read and is exactly what it claims. A humorous, satirical and insightful book. You may find yourself doing some self reflection and that can be a good thing.
Very interesting and entertaining book...loved the satire!
An enjoyable look at how we hide secrets. I recommend the book. Lots of satire.
In truth, I know the authors and couldn't wait to read their book. Not knowing what to expect, I dove right in and found myself laughing out loud for pages... Until I suddenly realized that there were some serious points they were hitting home and it wasn't quite the laughing matter it started out. The truth of what they are sharing is undeniable and just the "permission" someone might need to start fresh.
A sense of humor is a must if you are going to read this, as is an open mind. The last few chapters delve more into the self help realm than the rest of the book, so if you are looking for a book that preaches to you, you will not get it here. What you will get is a gentle poke in the rib that reminds you can't judge a book by its cover. Nor can you happily hide your true self for long!
This is a fast and fun read that is relatable.
Excellent book!! Fun read! I learned a lot 😜
I had to keep reminding myself this was satire. And as satire, for 80% of the book, the authors do a very good job.
Alla Campanella and Ken Massey rightly note that almost everyone has skeletons in their closets – secrets we just don’t share. But then we worry about keeping those secrets from popping out, or being found out or outed by someone else. The authors are careful to provide a disclaimer that they are not promoting immoral, unethical or illegal behavior. They then proceed to present several chapters of tricks for protecting your secrets dressing for diversion, mimicking the masters, taking the offensive. There are several chapters sharing methods to encourage fear and help prepare a response in the event of exposure, either accidental or purposeful. There can be an art in self disclosure that minimizes the potential for negative impact. The authors provide a fitting quote from Sidney Poitier “I know how easy it is for one to stay well within moral, ethical, and legal bounds through the skillful use of words—and to thereby spin, sidestep, circumvent, or bend a truth completely out of shape.” The authors also do a nice job of summarizing the techniques and testing the progress of the reader.
I really had difficulty sticking through this to the end. I knew it is satire but that didn’t help stop my feeling that what they were describing was somewhat ‘slimy’. Still, it just didn’t feel right or good and I didn’t want to read it. This made me feel like when I stop reading a book because the language used is just too foul – it makes me feel uncomfortable and unhappy.
I knew there was a better message but that isn’t shared until the last two chapters. The closing points note that hiding secrets may cause physical pain as well as emotional illness. It is healthier to uncover the secrets, face them and remove the skeleton from your life. This did make me feel better. The closing remarks reminded me of the Transactional Analysis course I took in my late twenties which featured resource books like I’m Ok - You’re Ok and Games People Play.
The book is well written and laid out in an easy to follow fashion. I think the authors’ introduction tried to reassure the reader that the ultimate message was positive… and it is. I just think there could be more positive ways to present the message. This one wasn’t real comfortable for me but could be very useful for the right people, right situation.
I received this title from ProBook Marketing through iRead Book Tours for an honest review. My rating 3.75.
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